I believe that I owe the readers of
the "Talk from under the Tipi" an explanation of how I have obtained
information about local events; it seems that nearly every day someone
comes by the store and inquires about how I got all the facts
together. So I will take time to answer the reader’s questions about
how I came to possess these items.
My grandmother Laura Goin died when I was twenty-three
years of age, before I started my own family of three girls and two
boys. I spent lots of time with Grandma and I made many mental notes
of what she said. I recall her saying to me, "Young man, you can keep
digging into this family and all of this history you are working on,
and one of these days you are going to find out something you won’t
like. I think I need to prepare you for the challenge."
Well, words couldn't have been more prophetically
spoken as they created in my mind just enough mysterious questions
that I just couldn't wait to get answers for them.
I am nearing seventy-six year of age and many
mysteries are unraveling, and more are coming to light as I study the
past.
The following is an explanation of how I came about
all this family and local area Onegan history. I recall the many large
family gatherings and how different age groups of the clan gathered
and talked of happenings since the last get together. This took place
in what is now my own back porch, front porch, side and back yard.
After Granddad Goin died, Grandma made a will that
leaving everything to her surviving children, Jim, Lillian and Joe.
She appointed me executor of her estate, and Daddy, Aunt Sis and Uncle
Joe were content with th arrangement.
When Grandma’s health declined, I was left with many
responsibilities. I was nineteen, and was required to deal with close
relatives very diplomatically in order to keep the family from going
into hostile powwow.
When Grandma grew too feeble to live alone, my Mama
and Daddy cared for her in their home. It was the accepted method
during those years for each family to care for it’s own elderly
members as there were no rest homes.
The old home place in Aubrey where I have now lived
for forty-five years still contained many of Grandma’s possessions
when she died, even though many of the boxes in the northwest bedroom
had been hauled off.
The front window glass was broken out. Grandad’s tool
box, the old high dresser from the living room and other items began
to disappear. We knew Aunt Sis took the old pump organ and the
secretary’s desk, plus old papers, but were not sure of the fate of
everything else.
Grandma had sent the old mantle clock out for repairs
while I was in the Army. She’d told me to keep it when I paid for
repairs; she was living with Mama and Daddy at this time.
Daddy got the old bed that came from his paternal
grandparents when they lived at Tin Top, Texas. The dining set also
went to Daddy and after his death stayed in the house in Denton on
Locust Street that Buddy bought from Daddy.
The little daybed from the hall of the Aubrey house
now belongs to my sister Mary, who had it repaired and covered in
green velvet. Mike McKinney of New Mexico, Aunt Sis’s grandson, has
the secretary and it is a cherished possession. The china safe from
the dining room was given to Uncle Joe, who gave it to Billie. I don’t
recall where everything is, but most of the old stuff is still around
at different places.
Before she moved in with Mama and Daddy, Grandma had a
Mr. and Mrs.
Mitchell living with her in the house on Hill Street
in Aubrey. After she moved, Robert Crowsey and family rented the
house, and the last occupants were the Tommy Wright family, before
Jackie and I moved in with our family.
I was working for the U.S.Department of Agriculture at
this point in time and moving to Aubrey made me closer to my work.
This was when Daddy transferred possession of the property to me.
Aunt Sis (Lillian Goin McKiney ) died September 7,
1970. While she didn’t possess all that much, (her assests can be
described as modest) she left both her brothers and all their children
an equal share of one quarter of her estate.
Her daughter Billie asked me to help clean out Aunt
Sis’s apartment on Belmont Street in Ft. Worth. Billie loaded her
truck with as much as she could safely drive back to Houston.
There were many books and I hauled a lot and shared
them with my sister Mary, but we simply did not have a place to store
the boxes of newspapers, books and magazines. These had personal value
to us, but many people would think them trash.
We were about to leave the Belmont Street apartment,
when I told Billie that we’d better look up in the attic hole in the
breakfast nook. I got a ladder from my truck and pushed up on the
plywood door which was about 24" by 24". The little ceiling door was
hard to budge, so Billie and I pushed hard. After much tugging and
pushing, we found it to be held down with about two hundred pounds of
old books, magazines and newspapers from Grandma’s house.
Aunt Sis also saved everything that had a bit of
family or local information. As time goes by, Billie and I find that
we inherited much history from Aunt Sis. We find it interesting to
have obtained this treasure trove and are still reading. I have a lot
more material to go through.